Okay. I'm a lesbian, but I haven't gotten any action for a LONG time. The last girl I was with had a baby and stayed with the guy. I live in a small town, and i cannot come out to parents until i move out of their house and i don't have the money to do so. My best friend is COMPLETELY anti-gay and because I live in such a small town there are no communities/support for lesbians, and so I have no idea where I can meet lesbians. The online thing, I've tried four times: one girl was OBSESSED with me in a crazy way, the other girl was into threesomes and didn't want a relationship, the other was super depressed all the time, and the last one wanted marriage and kids after two months. How can I find someone? Please help???