Thread: Am I weird for wanting boys to fancy me even though I'm a lesbian?

I don't want them to be with me, I just want them to be attracted to me. Is this just because I have low self esteem? When they are attracted to me I flirt like crazy too, but I really REALLY don't wanna be with them.
Don't bloody preach at me and tell me I'm wrong for following my natural instincts. Gayness is accepted now, so deal with it. Or, keep listening to that Wizard you believed in who tells us that a man was swallowed by a whale and lived.

I do always make sure I tell them up front that I'm gay so that they know they don't have a chance of anything actually happening with me... But does that make a difference? Is it still leading them on? If they ever mention wanting to date me or anything, I'm always like, yeah... but I like girls :/

No, not at all.
I'm gay, but I want girls to find me attractive. We just want people to like us =)
Also, therevman, stfu, you're not helping anyone and you're just wasting your time. Do you really expect people to waste their time and change themselves because of your line of ignorant bullshit?

No, not at all - I'm gay but still wonder.."Why don't I get attention from girls?" I'm still in the closet, so I know they don't know I'm gay.. it would be a confidence boost...but it makes me judge myself. Makes me think I'm ugly an no-one is attracted to me. ''/

Its just a natural human emotion we want people to notice us and maybe even look up to us because it makes us feel good. i don't believe that you have low self esteem you just want to look your best Hakuna Matata!

No, anyone wants to feel desired, it is however bad to be flirting with these guys if you have no interest in them. You should tell them upfront you don't swing that way.