Thread: Am i really bisexual?

I've read basically every article on this kind of stuff. 'Your 13 and your just experimenting at this age, take awhile, then make your decision' stuff has been popping up alot in these types of situations. I sometimes am attracted to girls, sometimes to guys. I personally don't want to have intercourse with anyone, male or female[even though that isn't possible..lol]. I am not at all 'claiming i'm bisexual', i love and have much respect for gay/lesbian/transgender/bisexual people. Somehow i WANT to be bisexual, but i know that i can't force these feelings. Can someone please give me some reasonable advice. I am 13 years old. 14 in October. =]

I'm fifteen and I know I'm bisexual. I remember at that age I was questioning myself. I think this is the age when you start to realize if your gay or not. Its a question you have to answer yourself. If you feel deep feelings for both genders, its very possible your bisexual.

In recent years it has become 'fashionable' to be gay/bi. Which is a double edged sword, it makes it easier for people like me who have been out for many years, but sadly it encourages people to 'want to be gay/bi'
I would bother putting a label on yourself ever, or at least untill you are sure.
Labels are just a way of limiting yourself.

Vik

Sexuality in females is extremely fluid. A woman can be attracted to males romantically and girls sexually and consider herself straight. A woman can also be attracted to males sexually and females romantically but consider herself a lesbian.

Remember there is a difference between admiring the female figure or admiring another girls' body and wanting to have sex with her. You want to find someone who fufills you in all ways. If that "someone" is a man who encourages you to experiment with girls, fine. If that "someone" is a female who likes to add a man into the mix, fine.