Thread: Am I a lesbian bi or strieght? Help?

So I live in a religious community and I am fully committed to my religion. I had a boyfriend when I was like In eighth grade. We didn't hook up cause I didnt want to ( I felt like I wasn't old enough ) but he held my hand and I got kind of excited and blushed when he kissed me on the cheek.

I'm a freshman in college and I haven't had a boyfriend since...Not because I didn't want one butbecauze it just never happened. Now im inan all girls school and me and my roommate r really close and sometimes jwhen she pits her hand on me I'll feel a spark... I just feel attracted to her. She's rly pretty.. I've also had lez dreams but I've also had guy dreams

Guys r hot though and im pretty sure im acttracted to them but since I haven't kissed a guy I Dnt realy know. and I want a family and I am committed to my religion so whatever I am it isnt going to change that... I can't experiment with girls r guys. I want to with my roomate but she's really religious and I am too so ain't happening. Am I just going through a phase? I don't know... If I see a hot guy I'm like o hes hot and I've liked guys before but like regular straight people do they ever have sexual thoughts about other women ever? Just to be close like... I don't know help ! It's driving me crazy. Also I have never felt attracted to any other girl really just my roomate...

It might be a phase but it might be the real deal you might be bi sounds like it to me.