Thread: Am I gay? Or Do I need a Father Figure?

I've been conflicted with this, for quite some time. I'm 100% honest when I say that I am sexually attracted to both sexes. (Or perhaps that means that I'm able to get sexually aroused to both sexes.) But it seems that the men whom I'm attracted to usually are the ones who could dominate, usually the bigger guys in stature and in mentality... Which is... different because in my every day life, I'm usually the one dominating relationships in terms of friends and my ex Girl friends. Even in Women, The kind of girls that I'm most attracted to are the girls who take charge, the ones who are in your face and well educated... So I don't really understand my sexuality. I can't identify it. I feel like I'm hitting 'puberty' way slower than most. I'm 19 and I can't decide, or even identify myself in that regard. Can anybody help me out? The question pretty much means... am I sexually attracted to those kinds of guys? Or am I attracted to the idea of a father figure who can put me in check? Like is that what I'm lacking in my life? Do I need that in order to for fill something?

I have the same problem but I'm a women and I like men
but I have been with women.... I know what you mean
its hard to say let me know when you figure it out