...blackberry extras.More info disclosed.? I plan on purchaseing a blackberry curve for high school either from verizon or t mobile.I only want to pay the normal 40 or 30 dollars a month. I plan on using it ONLY for calling,occational texting, and keeping informational on the curve's callendar and note taking section.I DONT want to use email or the internet on the phone.Can i bypass the extra blackberry plans that cost in excess of 35,40 dollars a month?Also,is this phone too feminine for a guy.It would be in the titanium color.Finally, can i pay per use of internet and email.Oh and if i buy a phone in the vstore do I have to pay retail?