How do you add a contact in BB messenger? I know how but it says it sent a request to the phone but the phone doesnt receive an invitation. I have a 8330 Curve and my friend has a 8100 Pearl and when i click add a contact... i click on her name which already has the PIN on it and it says it sent her a request but she doesnt receive it. I tried the [use once] then requet PIN... but she still doesnt receive the invitation. Can you please give me an explanation on why this isnt working??? thanks