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It's your wedding. You send out the invitations. She does not.
This might be a little bit tricky if the in-laws are contributing financially to the wedding. However, even if that's the case, you're entitled to have guests at your wedding that you want. This might require a conversation with your future in-laws (probably without the little sister present).
If you want to extend an olive branch and try to be more welcoming to your new family member, perhaps invite one or two of her friends so she doesn't get bored at the reception with all of the adults. However, you don't have to let her have a free-for-all with the invites. Talk to her parents, and see which of her friends would be the most mature and comfortable at the event.
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