I think once her drive is gone, it's gone and there's not a whole lot we can do about it. The onus lies on them, and if they don't want to make the effort, there's not a whole lot we can do about it other than please ourselves or have an affair. Trust me - I've tried EVERYTHING. I may as well...
Yes, they are. Too bad they aren't making enough games for them though. I've had one for 3+ years and I buy a game about every 6 months because they just don't make enough good ones for them.