Wake up to yourself, this guy is USING you for sex, you are nothing but a hole between two legs to him, if he cared he would be calling you, texting you and wanting to be with you even to the point of breaking up with his girlfriend for you. You can do better than some other woman's sloppy seconds.
Go the plane, you'll have it over and done with in an hour . take plenty of books, an ipod and some other stuff that will help you keep your mind off the flight and it'll be over before you know it. As to where you should stay, what is your budget ?
I got sent this on facebook and thought I'd share
WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED? Yes
WERE YOU MARRIED AT THE TIME? Yes
WHAT WERE YOUR REACTIONS? Wow, that was quick (we'd only been trying for 2 months)
WAS ABORTION AN OPTION FOR YOU? Never , ever, this baby was very very...
I would let your mother know about your FMIL's restrictions date -wise and let her make the decision. No matter what date is chosen for these things they are not going to be convenient for everybody. If she can make it, great if not well thats a shame but things like this can't be...
He gave you his pin number, he wouldn't have done that if he had something to hide. He's still allowed to talk to other girls, as long as he isn't being excessively flirty, they might just be friends of his