First of all, there is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 22 and it's good that you havent thrown it away on someone who didnt deserve you. Not alot of young people have the ability to say no for fear of not fitting in so it's good that you have been able to. As for getting a man, you need to...
i think, u wanna have a relationship but u scared enough if he wants more like sex.well, when a man like u and want to be ur boyfriend... u can talk to him dat no sex.wen he really loves u... no sex wont big matter for him. and he`ll more respect and treats u so nice.